I never understood the how the “baby mama” works.
I also don’t get the “bitter woman syndrome” either.
This is my perception of the “baby mama” “bitter woman syndrome” Now correct me if im wrong, and if I am then I will and can apologize… BUT… Answer me this…
Ladies, why is it that when you are having casual sex with a man you think that you are owner of him? Was that ever established? Why do you go through his phone on purpose? you know when you look for it you will find it right? Then you have the audacity to find out that he is seeing other people, BUT you dont quit him BUT you want to fight the girl he was messing with? Um, where is the logic in that? 9/10 dude is telling YOU and HER the same thing… and she is falling just like you.
Ladies? Please explain to me why you can have the BEST man possible but you still put him down? Disrespect him?
So, he cooks, cleans, writes you little notes goes over and beyond to help you out and make you happy, but you cant please him? Still call him out of his name? Still talk to other men in an innapropriate manner? still want more and more?
Why must you walk around with that PERMANANT FUNK on your face? Why dont you smile?
Why is speaking proper english and no tattoo’s and him not wearing his pants hanging off his ass, considered ”acting white”? Last time i checked no one could “act” a color. To me that isnt a sign of anything but proper upbringing/teachings and someone you would want a son to learn from…
“Baby mama’s”
Is money really more important than the father of the child spending time????? Are you hitting that mans pockets THAT HARD because you are mad that you and him didnt work? That you were a jump off??? Or is it because your child really needs ALL OF the name brand this and that? Seriously, what exactly are you doing with your life? So wait… He can cash you out all the time whenever he has it right? What happens when he wants to see the child? He cant? Why not?
Please stop being trifling and making that mans life miserable just because you are. You are bitter and selfish and truth be told the only person who is going to look bad later on in your childs eyes…
Have fun explaining that to him/her.
Why is it that your child knows all you “male friends”? must you bring EVERY MAN around get the child(ren) attached and you KNOW that he isnt gonna last or that you are a jump off? Why are you at the club every weekend with your rainbow outfit on looking for the next “baller” or “baby daddy”? Have a seat.
Why are you looking for a rich man when you sit at home, no goals, no ambition, just a baby maker? You want to be kept? you only can get what you can give in the long run…
Please have some dignity and respect. Women wonder why men treat us certain ways and its because you are only going to GET the respect you DEMAND. You don’t DEMAND it verbally… You demand it by dress, the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, the way you take care of YOUR BUSINESS…
So ladies… let’s strive for a better 2011 and stop opening our legs for every man that tells us something nice and take time to get to know a person before you lay with him. THE MEN YOU DATE ARENT RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR DADDY ISSUES… GET COUNSELING IF NEEDED, HANDLE YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS. If your personal business isnt in check, you should re-evaluate your life and get it together.
POW tell em again shauna. I know this post 1st hand. I'm no saint but i hv 2 beautiful kids with 2 great fathers. We hv nothing but respect for each other get along great and split everything 50/50 i don't tk any money from them. They get there kids 50% of the time and pay half of daycare i don't need anything else from them..... We aren't bitter twords each other. We respect that we hsd our time it didn't work and now we hv to move on with our lives! Neither one of US was perfect! I hate women who act like that twords there co parent. Grow up let that man see his kids and stop blaming your insecurities and ability to find a good man on him :-)
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