COPING... HOW??

don’t know very many women who have lost children but i personally know about it. Sometimes i wonder if i am dealing with it appropriately… Like what comes next? Am i coping the right way? What about people who let themselves die right with their child? If your in love with the person you had a baby with and your no longer preparing for parenthood what happens with the two of you? Is the relationship strained or should it bring you closer… This is deep for a mother… This is deep for a father. Especially if the father was just as excited as you are if not more. Where do you go from there?